Posted by Gary M | Posted in A shift in advertising, Leveraging Technology, Online relationships | Posted on 17-11-2010
Tags: A shift in advertising, consumer behavior, tribes
The social media concepts we see in place today are affecting business relationships, specifically in the marketing and advertising worlds. Marketers can now identify with laser-accuracy the perfect customers based on personal tastes and preferences and narrow their messages to an exact profile. That’s very positive because the benefit is that the customer’s suitability to the business/individual they will be working with is far more compatible. The negative side is that non-suitable clients do not give attention to the business relationship because of a lack of commonality. NOTE: Many marketers and businesses truly believe this “trend” will fade and that the world will return to “the way it was”. Such an observation is both inaccurate and short-sighted and those that refuse to believe will be left behind.
This issue is extending to personal relationships as well. How many blogs are there? Over 1.9 Million and growing. What are they about? Better yet, what AREN’T they about? Individuals can literally search for any topic of interest and discuss it in any format they choose: Skype, e-mail, blog, text, phone, letter (not likely), FB, Twitter, My Space, YouTube, LinkedIn, …… You get the point. The challenge is that our tolerance for discussion of topics OUTSIDE our interests is drastically reduced…we’d far rather give attention to things we genuinely CARE about…not things SOMEONE ELSE cares about…There simply isn’t enough time in the day to learn enough about someone else’s interests to engage in an intellectual discussion with them included. Like it or not, this isn’t going to change. Call it information overload in the Information Age, call it targeted social interaction, call it whatever you want. It may or may not break down longstanding personal relationships depending on the coping capacity of the people involved in the discussion.
People are actually finding themselves drawn to others who share much more TARGETED interests than 20 years ago. Remember in the 80’s and 90’s? What did we have to talk about? Football, basketball, local news from the NEWSPAPER, what mixes well with watermelon schnapps…Are we on the same page? Today, we are all challenged with too much information. Dining room table conversations don’t happen like they used to, even when the entire family is present. Family gatherings are becoming stressful instead of relaxing because there are now MILLIONS of topics someone could possibly choose to discuss. For example: If a discussion begins about something for which you are totally unprepared, what do YOU do? I personally feel that’s the reason there’s football on Thanksgiving.
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